Lucy Smith

Speaker, Facilitator, Compare

Inspiring audiences & making a difference

Neurodiversity | Managing Change | Resilience

Life Stories | Social Enterprise

Authentic storytelling that makes a difference

Hi, I am Lucy!

Some people call me the "pocket rocket". I think that is because I have passion and energy to bring out the best in an audience.

I have been working with audiences for almost 25 years in many guises - Lecturer, radio presenter, drama teacher, children's entertainer (I have been a professional fairy) facilitator, compare and speaker.

As a speaker I believe there has to be some substance behind us and I sure have that too. Not being able to settle and always saying "YES" to opportunities has led to a whole lot of experience that informs my work and my presentations.

At my core I am a purpose led social entrepreneur who loves to start a conversation about topics that matter.

I start those conversations with stories some that will surprise and some that will inspire. I talk about some difficult stuff and combine my unique expertise and knowledge.

Relatable, authentic and thought provoking

Lucy x

Neurodiversity

What is your perspective?

I come from a range of different perspectives when I talk about neurodiversity. From pedagogy, organisation development and leadership, research, personal and family and real lived experience. With a a strengths based approach I talk positively and with passion about change and neurodiversity in work, school and community.

I engage audiences to get them thinking and start conversations that will make and does make a lasting difference.

Change Management

Let me meet you at your

bus-stop

In the world of change management, it's not about imposing a new route; it's about understanding where you're starting from.

I have spent a decade working with senior leaders in transformational change where I have learned that change is often an individual journey and we will all join that journey from a different bus-stop.

I combine theory with reality and always have an eye on the future.

Life Stories

The secret change agent

A wealth of stories based on real lived experience with plenty of lessons for the future. Spilling some my secrets on here would be giving away some of my best work which you will want to hear straight from the source.

Oh, okay, let's just say I can talk about resilience, royalty, and some really fun stuff from a career in international law enforcement,

Social Enterprise

Making a difference - the torch that lights the stars

Lighting people up to make sustainable change happen is a big part of what I do. From setting up a community radio station to developing an innovative and groundbreaking conference around digital wellbeing and young people.

I talk the talk and walk the walk when it comes to social enterprise, from grass roots to engagement at the highest levels right up to Downing Street.

What do other people say?

Don't take it from me, here is what others say about working with me.

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Psychological safety in change

September 08, 20253 min read

Change doesn’t just shake up structures and systems, it unsettles people. For neurodivergent employees, the emotional impact of organisational change can be profound, particularly when psychological safety is lacking or inconsistently applied.

In the final part of this blog series, based on an interview I gave published in Neuroscience for Organisational Change with Hilary Scarlett we explore why psychological safety must be sustained through change, and why managers and leaders carry a particular responsibility to protect and promote it. Without this foundation, even the most inclusive strategies can unravel.

Psychological Safety Is Not a One-Off Effort

Psychological safety means being able to speak up, share concerns, or show vulnerability without fear of judgment or consequence. It is a prerequisite for innovation, collaboration, and inclusion, and it is especially crucial for neurodivergent employees, many of whom may have experienced misunderstanding, exclusion, or stigma in previous roles.

When change arrives, the dynamics shift. Project leads may foster safe environments during the transition, but what happens when they leave? If a new manager replaces a psychologically safe leader with a more rigid or less empathetic approach, the sense of safety can collapse overnight.

For a neurodivergent person who has disclosed a diagnosis, raised concerns, or taken interpersonal risks, this shift can be deeply damaging. Trust is fragile. Once broken, it takes more than policy to repair.

The Manager’s Role in Navigating Neurodivergent Needs

Managers are on the front line of change. They don’t need to know the diagnoses of their team members, but they must be attuned to signs of struggle, and ready to respond constructively. That means asking thoughtful questions, not making assumptions.

A well-intentioned manager might notice someone disengaging and assume they are resistant. But if that person is dealing with the loss of their work routines, or has lost access to the tools that supported their performance, what looks like resistance may be exhaustion or anxiety.

One common misunderstanding relates to Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria (RSD), which is particularly prevalent among people with ADHD. Even neutral feedback or a change in tone can trigger an outsized emotional response. A neurodivergent employee might suddenly leave a meeting, not from aggression but to avoid crying or showing visible distress, behaviour that could be misread if not understood through the right lens.

Managers must be trained to navigate these subtleties. They need the language, the empathy, and the tools to differentiate between behavioural issues and unmet needs. This isn't a one off awareness session but might look like a peer support or coaching network for managers or access to an experienced coach for your team when you are going through change programmes.

Designing for Safety, Not Just Compliance

Psychological safety cannot be left to chance. It must be built into the culture of change, not bolted on. This can mean:

  • Establishing regular, non-judgmental check-ins during periods of change

  • Offering a range of communication channels for feedback or concerns

  • Normalising conversations about different work styles, regardless of disclosure or sharing needs

  • Training leaders in neuroinclusive communication, empathy, and support strategies

A Foundation in Neuroscience

In Neuroscience for Organizational Change, Hilary Scarlett outlines the neurological need for control, predictability, and social connection. Psychological safety supports these needs, and its absence can trigger fight, flight, freeze, or fawn responses, particularly in neurodivergent individuals.

The book provides powerful insights into how leaders can design change in a way that works with the brain, not against it. For any organisation looking to make inclusion real, it’s an essential resource.

Order your copy at Kogan Page and use code NEW20 for 20% off your first purchase.

Embedding Lasting Change

At Inclusive Change, we work with organisations to embed psychological safety and neuroinclusion into the heart of their change programmes. From leadership coaching to ND audits and bespoke training, we help leaders shift from awareness to action.

To find out how we can support your team, visit inclusivechange.co.uk

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